WHave you wondered why you haven’t met Mr. Right? Maybe it’s because you are not using your femininity to its fullest advantage!
In this charming episode, I talked with Love and Cosmic Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan. At forty, Ronnie realized she was chronically single with very little hope of any compelling prospects. She decided it was time to find Mr. Right and launched a 15-month journey to find love!
Up until this time, she had focused primarily on her successful career. So, she took what she knew about how to be successful and focused all her efforts on finding true love. The law of attraction states that you will attract whatever you focus on. Her new goal was Mr. Right.
Ronnie found that dating over forty is different from dating in your twenties. The rules change slightly. Men over forty still want to feel like it’s their idea to date you. She said many women, especially those who are ambitious, successful businesswomen forget this and go into relationships as if they are a business transaction. Men still like to woo a woman.
“I often hear that they (the men) haven’t called within a certain period. So, my clients will text or call them to see if they are still interested. But by the guy not texting or calling you, they are telling you whether they are interested or not!” states Ronnie.
Many women are not too excited to hear this from Ronnie, but she has a valid point. The guy may text back, and you may go on a date, but you may never know their true intention because you didn’t let them be the aggressor in the beginning. If they reach out, they are interested. If they don’t, you don’t need to waste your time (or theirs), and you move on to the next guy. “It’s simple mathematics,” said Ronnie.
Ronnie dated over 30 men within 15 months before meeting her husband. She told everyone her intention to meet and marry Mr. Right. She said she had to kiss many frogs before she found even a few that were potential Mr. Rights. It’s all about playing the numbers and not taking things too personally. There is someone out there for everyone!
Also, in Ronnie’s 15-month journey, she went through intense soul searching. She wanted to understand why she had attracted the relationships she did in her early twenties that broke her heart. And she also had to heal the walls around her heart that had kept her single for over 20 years. Ronnie had to learn and accept that she was worthy of true love, and at her core, she was love.
It was a process that didn’t happen overnight. But with persistence and commitment, Ronnie found her husband. And she says anyone can do it!
“I work with women and a man every once in a while to find true love. But only for those who are willing to do the work. And for those who do the steps, it works!” Ronnie states emphatically.
So, are you looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right? Are you willing to commit to doing what it takes, put yourself out there, and grab the future you desire? It all starts with a yes—to yourself and to love.
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